What to Expect When You Visit: Worship in Grace Episcopal Church


Sunday is traditionally when Episcopalians gather for worship. The principal weekly worship service is the Holy Eucharist, also known as: the Lord’s Supper, Holy Communion, or Mass. In most Episcopal churches, worship is accompanied by the singing of hymns, and in some churches, much of the service is sung.
Here at Grace, we offer a combination of both styles: Our 8:00 AM Service is known as Rite I, a traditional liturgy, and most or all of the service is spoken. Our “8 o’clockers” cherish the quiet atmosphere of this service. Our 10:30 service offers a choir, a procession, and a variety of service participants. You will be greeted by our Ushers and Welcoming Ministry representatives. They’ll be glad to help you find your way around to the restrooms, nursery, or assist you with seating as needed. All ages are welcome at our services, but we offer the Nursery as a service to our family parishioners who have small children.

Worship Styles

Episcopalians worship in many different styles, ranging from very formal, ancient, and multi-sensory rites with lots of singing, music, fancy clothes (called vestments), and incense, to informal services with contemporary music. Yet all worship in the Episcopal Church is based in the Book of Common Prayer, which gives worship a familiar feel, no matter where you go.
Here at Grace, we use the Book of Common Prayer each week, accompanied by a printed service leaflet with readings and page numbers to guide parishioners during the services. The service leaflet also contains announcements of upcoming events.

The Service

Liturgy and Ritual
Worship in the Episcopal Church is said to be “liturgical,” meaning that the congregation follows service forms and prays from texts that don’t change greatly from week to week during a season of the year. This sameness from week to week gives worship a rhythm that becomes comforting and familiar to the worshipers.
For the first-time visitor, liturgy may be exhilarating… or confusing. Services may involve standing, sitting, kneeling, sung or spoken responses, and other participatory elements that may provide a challenge for the first-time visitor. However, liturgical worship can be compared with a dance: once you learn the steps, you come to appreciate the rhythm, and it becomes satisfying to dance, again and again, as the music changes.
The Holy Eucharist
In spite of the diversity of worship styles in the Episcopal Church, Holy Eucharist always has the same components and the same shape.
The Liturgy of the Word
We begin by praising God through song and prayer and then listen to as many as four readings from the Bible. Usually one from the Old Testament, a Psalm, something from the Epistles, and (always) a reading from the Gospels. The psalm is usually sung or recited by the congregation.
Next, a sermon interpreting the readings appointed for the day is preached.
The congregation then recites the Nicene Creed, written in the Fourth Century and the Church’s statement of what we believe ever since.
Here at Grace, we use both the Nicene Creed and the Apostles Creed, depending upon the service or occasion.
Next, the congregation prays together—for the Church, the World, and those in need. We pray for the sick, thank God for all the good things in our lives, and finally, we pray for the dead. The presider (e.g. priest, bishop, lay minister) concludes with a prayer that gathers the petitions into a communal offering of intercession.
In certain seasons of the Church year, the congregation formally confesses their sins before God and one another. This is a corporate statement of what we have done and what we have left undone, followed by a pronouncement of absolution. In pronouncing absolution, the presider assures the congregation that God is always ready to forgive our sins.
Here at Grace, we generally recite the Confession of Sin together each week.
The congregation then greets one another with a sign of “peace.”
The Liturgy of the Table
Next, the priest stands at the table, which has been set with a cup of wine and a plate of bread or wafers, raises his or her hands, and greets the congregation again, saying “The Lord be With You.” Now begins the Eucharistic Prayer, in which the presider tells the story of our faith, from the beginning of Creation, through the choosing of Israel to be God’s people, through our continual turning away from God, and God’s calling us to return. Finally, the presider tells the story of the coming of Jesus Christ, and about the night before his death, on which he instituted the Eucharistic meal (communion) as a continual remembrance of him.
The presider blesses the bread and wine, and the congregation recites the Lord’s Prayer. Finally, the presider breaks the bread and offers it to the congregation, as the “gifts of God for the People of God.”
The congregation then shares the consecrated bread and the wine. Sometimes the people all come forward to receive the bread and wine; sometimes they pass the elements around in other ways.
Here at Grace, Ushers assist in directing parishioners by rows to move forward to the altar rail and stand or kneel according to ability, to receive Communion. Everyone is encouraged to participate, but it is not a requirement of the service at all.
All Are Welcome
All baptized Christians—no matter age or denomination—are welcome to “receive communion.” Episcopalians invite all baptized people to receive, not because we take the Eucharist lightly, but because we take our baptism so seriously.
Visitors who are not baptized Christians are welcome to come forward during the Communion to receive a blessing from the presider.
At the end of the Eucharist, the congregation prays once more in thanksgiving and then is dismissed to continue the life of service to God and to the World.


(The above Episcopal service information was sourced from the Episcopal Diocese of Upper South Carolina, and modified to include our practices)


1. What should I wear?

Clothing is not optional. Within that framework, you are welcome to dress up or dress casually, according to your preference. We are happy to see you!

2. Who do I ask when I have questions about the service I’m planning to attend or that I attended?

Our Deacon, Mary Jeffers, and Fr Jack, our Parish Priest, will be delighted to answer any questions you may have. If you are interested in exploring the Episcopal denomination or being officially received into the Episcopal Church, Fr. Jack teaches Baptism and Confirmation classes twice a year. If you are already an Episcopalian, and you want to permanently join our family at Grace, you can transfer your membership to our parish.

3. What is the Sign of the Cross? Why are people doing it? Do I have to do it?

Crossing oneself is an ancient Christian gesture wherein a person touches the forehead, heart, the left shoulder, and right shoulder. It symbolizes our connection to the sacrifice Jesus made for us, and our commitment to keep God in our minds, bodies, and spirits. It is an optional and voluntary gesture.

4. Does the Episcopal Church actually welcome everyone?

As the leader of the Episcopal Church in the United States, Presiding Bishop Michael Curry said it best: “As the Episcopal branch of the Jesus Movement today, we Episcopalians are committed, as our Prayer Book teaches, to honor the covenant and promises we made in Holy Baptism: To proclaim by word and example the Good News of God in Christ; To seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving our neighbor as ourselves; to strive for justice and peace among all people, and to respect the dignity of every human being.” We hope that you will find the people at Grace a living example of that statement.